I am going out tonight.  It is a big birthday for one of my best friends in the whole world and I don’t know what to wear.  I don’t really have going out dresses and fancy pants clothes, or even any fancy pants.  Going out and  wearing posh dresses isn’t really something I do very often so I would prefer a new pair of jeans to a new dress. Shoes, oh my, don’t even ask about shoes, I have one pair, yes one single pair of ‘going out’ shoes to my name,  which I bought for another birthday a couple of years ago, tonight will the the second wearing of them!  They are very high and I can barely walk in them. So, my dress options are one which I bought about 12 years ago for a party I went to when my husband just graduated from University, it is red, and I like it but I wore it to the last party, the one with the new shoes, so I can’t wear that one. …